Surrogacy : Actress Ini Edo created a problem for her baby — Writer Waterz Yidana reveals


Nollywood Actress, Ini Edo has been chided by a Nigerian writer for her choice of getting her teenager through surrogacy.

Ini’s eggs have been fertilized by a sperm donor nonetheless the writer feels Ini has made a giant mistake taking that route.

The writer went on in order so as to add that it is a good factor to have a precise father and everyone deserves one.

Read his epistle beneath ;

I like Ini Edo very a lot. If for nothing the least bit, I beloved watching her movement photos as soon as I used to be rising up as a teenager.
She is a very beautiful lady. And she is presented as successfully and interpreted her movie roles previous perfection, subsequently my likeness for her…..
I often gained’t contact upon the existence of many Nigerian and Ghanaian celebrities as a results of I actually really feel they’ve every correct to reside as they please as quickly as they are not breaking any public authorized tips or posing as enemies of the state…

But I’m commenting on this particular issue as a results of I seen so a lot of our youth praising her on-line for the fallacious goal.
So to educate them, I’ve to elucidate positive points to them so they do not repeat such a giant mistake like Ini Edo has merely achieved…
I be taught throughout the data within the current day that she (Ini Edo) has birthed a baby lady through surrogacy and she or he could also be very blissful about that. Well, I’m blissful for her too as a fan…
Congratulations to her. But she devoted a blunder I’ll choose to degree out to her….
I understand the plight of girls who’ve tried all of the issues doable to have their very personal children nonetheless cannot. It’s depressing and soul-crushing.
I on a regular basis sympathize with them and encourage our males to take care of such girls with a lot kindness as a results of they need it to keep up them really alive.
To be barren in Africa should not be easy. People will determine you from left and correct with out understanding the way in which you really actually really feel as a lady who wishes your particular person teenager or children.
Some of these girls with such points , of their quest to get a teenager by all means, try varied issues along with surrogacy, notably these of them who’re privileged or pretty okay in life…

It’s not a harmful issue to have a teenager through surrogacy when you occur to’ve points alongside along with your reproductive system or having a issue getting pregnant or, in a case the place getting pregnant and giving starting poses a danger to your properly being…

But my solely problem is that Ini Edo has created a giant problem for this innocent baby when she grows as a lot as understand how points work in life…
Of course, Ini Edo deserves to be blissful, nonetheless let’s not overlook that the innocent teenager deserves to be blissful too, eventually when she grows as a lot as understand what’s occurring spherical her….

She birthing the baby through surrogacy should not be the problem as I maintain saying,
nonetheless her dedication of using a random or an anonymous “donor sperm” is my problem with her. Yes, the Eggs are hers and so genetically the baby is her blood.
But who’s the baby’s father? Where is he? From which family background? Is he a Ghanaian, Nigerian or a South African? What is his id?
Who is her surrogate mother? Where is she? The lady that suffered to carry her 9 months in her womb!…
These are very associated questions Ini Edo and her buddies could also be overlooking, nonetheless this innocent teenager will ask these comparable questions some day when she desires fatherly love and care.

This baby will endure a lot of psychological points and psychological tortures attempting for who her father is and the lady that carried her for 9 months in her womb.
Do you assume that it is easy to reside with out understanding your father in an African society?

If you develop up as a teenager and ask about your father, and in addition you’re instructed that he’s ineffective, you’ll understand because you’ll see his footage and his family…
But for Ini Edo to tell the child that “I don’t know your father. ‘It was an anonymous “donor sperm” with my egg that another woman carried for nine months for me’, will make the child in all probability probably the most miserable explicit particular person on earth. She may even commit suicide if she should not be strong emotionally….
Worse of all of it, is that if Ini Edo doesn’t reside prolonged enough to see this teenager develop up as an grownup. Who will seemingly be her family? Ini Edo’s brothers and sisters? Too harmful….
It’s not the proper to have a teenager through surrogacy with a random or an anonymous “donor sperm”….

Ini Edo might’ve made her boyfriend or any man she admires donate his sperm for this baby since she’s not ready for marriage.
But to say that she doesn’t want any “baby daddy drama” that’s why she chosen a random “donor sperm” is barely displaying her diploma of selfishness or childishness….
She doesn’t really care about how the baby will actually really feel when she grows up…..

She merely cares about having a baby to please the society or to point out a ineffective degree to people who don’t like her or people she doesn’t like. Too harmful. I pity the innocent baby…

Other girls who may want to have children this way must do with a man they like so that the child may have and know their father….
It’s a good factor to have a father. And everyone deserves one…

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